There is nothing wrong if a girl loves a guy and she approaches. This happens in the European countries and other parts of the world.
In Africa or Ghana to be precise, society has made it so for them to always relax for men to come and propose thinking if a girl approaches a guy or proposes to a guy she is cheap.
So always men will lie and pretend just to win them. This is the main reason why most Ghanaian girls are meeting “play boys and f*ck boys”.. Boys are taking advantage of that.
Your pride is making you not to get a better relationship, hence a better marriage..